I have to consistently remember that my kids have to be allowed to be their own selves. I know this as they will eventually attend the same school I teach at. I know this as I pursue my own writing. I know this as someone who spent most of her adolescence struggling with finding my own identity separate from my dad's position. Our children don't get to choose the childhood we've given them. Let's at least give them the freedom to find their way through that childhood.